Some years ago I saw this guy and thought he was 'all that'. Then I saw his girlfriend. Her thighs were thicker than my waist, and I was like...wow....I need to change my glasses as a matter of emergency. But my opinion of the guy went down. Not just his appearance, his intelligence, his character, I mean, the guy went from Tyr Anasazi to Chris Rock.
The other day, the same thing happened again, proving I haven't changed. I thought this guy was all that, saw his girlfriend, and like, I don't even want to hear what he has to say.
It's not judging a guy by how he looks. It is judging him as to how his girlfriend looks. Which of course, brings me to the fact that women judge other women, are more interested in other women then they will admit.
I've always known that the 'Other Woman' isn't going after the guy, she's judging herself against the wife. If I can take him I am better than the wife. And many of us have seen the gal dump the guy when the wife does, or when she find out the wife has someone else on the side.
This is the danger, of course, of the anorexic model, who makes other women feel fat, the danger of thinking that if our breasts were bigger, our bellies flatter, our hair dyed we will be 'better women'.
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